Wednesday, March 31, 2010
Saturday, March 20, 2010
不公平
Friday, March 19, 2010
Thursday, March 11, 2010
办到啦!
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
我以为
你说会懂我的失落....我以为,我出现的时候刚好不纵容他再给你伤害
我以为我的温柔,能给你真的愉悦我以为我能全力,填满你感情缺口也许我太过天真,以为奇迹会发生我以为终究,你会慢慢明白,他的心不在你身上我的关心,你依然无动于衷我的以为只是....我以为
他让你红了眼眶,你却还笑着原谅原来你早就想好,你要留在谁身旁我以为我够坚强,却输得那么绝望
Monday, February 22, 2010
Saturday, January 30, 2010
啃死猫
Tuesday, January 12, 2010
Why Friends Lie
Sometimes, friends lie because of the way that they are feeling. If a friend feels inferior to another person, they might make up stories or situations so that they can get more attention. If your friend is lying to you because of this reason, it might be a good idea to talk to your friend about their feelings. If you can make them understand that they don’t need to feel inferior to you, or you can make them see that there are great things about them that they might not have thought of before, they will be less likely to lie in the future.
There are times when a friend might lie to avoid getting in trouble. For instance, if a friend has been doing something that they know you wouldn't approve of, or if they said or did something that they now regret, they might want to lie about it so that you won't be angry with them. The best way to handle this situation is to get to the bottom of what might have happened, and make sure that you are being honest with your friend about everything that you do. You should also be sure to talk to your friend about how much lying hurts, and how it makes you feel.
Sometimes, a friend lies for other reasons. One of these reasons might be to protect your feelings. These lies are a little bit different because they might not be honest, but they are lies that are done with good intentions. For instance, if a friend wants to protect your feelings, they might lie about how you look, or how you behaved. These lies often come in the heat of the moment – for example if you feel that you acted out of control or in an embarrassing way, a friend might assure you that you shouldn't be embarrassed, or that you acted in a perfectly controlled manner, even if they might believe otherwise. This is something that might be done to protect you feelings – and most of the time, friends can tell when another friend is saying these things just to make them feel better. You must decide if truthfulness is more important that your feelings, in this type of situation.
Although it might seem easy to do, and although you might have excuses for it, it is never a good idea to lie to a friend. Lying to your friends breaks trust, and breaks confidence in the friendship. Therefore, you want to be sure that you are always being truthful with your friends.
Many times, friends don't lie to hurt each other, but to avoid being hurt themselves. Perhaps they know that the truth might make you mad at them, and they might want to avoid losing your friendship. The best way to handle lying is to talk to your friends calmly, and get the entire truth. Try to move forward, but always remember that you should be honest with your friend in order to make sure that they treat you the same way.
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Friday, December 11, 2009
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不该做的,做了;该做的,不敢做
不能想的,想了;能想的,没想到
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抹不去那不想留下的记忆,更不敢想那前面的路
Friday, December 4, 2009
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
That's What Friends are For
And as far as I'm concerned
I'm glad I got the chance to say
That I do believe I love you
And if I should ever go away
Well, then close your eyes and try to feel
The way we do today
And then if you can remember
Keep smilin', keep shinin'
Knowin' you can always count on me, for sure
That's what friends are for
For good times and bad times
I'll be on your side forever more
That's what friends are for
Well, you came and opened me
And now there's so much more I see
And so by the way I thank you
Whoa, and then for the times when we're apart
Well, then close your eyes and know
These words are comin' from my heart
And then if you can remember, oh
Keep smiling, keep shining
Knowing you can always count on me, for sure
That's what friends are for
In good times, in bad times
I'll be on your side forever more
Oh, that's what friends are for
Whoa... oh... oh... keep smilin', keep shinin'
Knowin' you can always count on me, for sure
That's what friends are for
For good times and bad times
I'll be on your side forever more
That's what friends are for
Keep smilin', keep shinin'
Knowin' you can always count on me, oh, for sure
'Cause I tell you that's what friends are for
For good times and for bad times
I'll be on your side forever more
That's what friends are for (That's what friends are for)
On me, for sure
That's what friends are for
Keep smilin', keep shinin'
Monday, November 2, 2009
曾经走过的,必留下痕迹
当你回忆过去时,不要埋怨或讨厌过去,它只是你生命中的经历,过去只是我们的借镜,它不应该是我们的累赘。要感恩过去,就因为这些过去的经历,你才有今天的领悟。
过去不等于未来,过去永远不会再回来,过去就让它过去,不要再活在过去了,你只能掌握当下,一旦你能够掌握当下,你就能够拥有美好的未来。
你无法改变历史,但你可以改变历史的意义,给历史好的意义将改变自己对历史的看法,我们都从很多伟人的历史当中得到很多的启发、很多的学习。好的意义可以让你成长、让你不再跌倒。任何的经历都有所学习,曾经跌倒的人才会感受到痛的滋味,痛是提醒、痛是教训、痛是成长。跌倒并不羞耻,羞耻的是赖在那里不爬起来。我们必须要想办法用力和使劲去使自己站起来,唯有这样,才能够改变现在的自己。
你今天承受的成果是过去种下的因,你过去的所做所为造成今天的你。然而,如果今天的你再不察觉到这一点,再不去改变现在的你,你将再次塑造明天同样的自己。曾走过的,必留下痕迹。好的痕迹,把它记住;不好的痕迹,把它当着学习.

